J1 CUT the straps of his lunch bag which his uncle gave him. and his brother’s. and he also cut a huge piece from his brother’s lunchbag flap. and the straps from his big bag. He even got his seat mate to do the same to hers. Im very very angry, upset and disappointed. mebbe that’s how his shirt got ripped. I dunno. We gave them that stuff for Xmas.

he’s being defiant, rude and saying that he’s always being blamed, he’s tired blah blah blah blah. I dunno what to do at the moment. have to BIBO first and think. For the time being, no TV, no PC or online games and his fav monkey has been removed. He’s going to sleep on his own tonight without any of his brothers.

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3 thoughts on “

  1. Ooohh….experimentation of actions!

    I guess we will all have to go through this stage of defining appropriate actions and setting boundaries.

    Hope everything works out well in the end.

  2. Not like I know this for myself, but just wondering if some reverse psychology would work.

    Kesian the boy has to be punished so “harshly”, but maybe he needs more positive stimulation and occupation of his time.
    Try gymnastics or martial arts maybe?

  3. 🙂 we have tried reverse phsychology. Standing in corner. Deducation of allowance. Removel of privileges. Even the rotan.

    Doesnt always work.

    the taking away of the monkey actually works. The threat works better too 🙂

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